It’s not uncommon for a relationship to have its ups and downs. It can only sometimes run smoothly because there are bound to be obstacles. One of the triggers can come from outside or from within. Triggers from the outside are the third person; triggers from within are usually one of the characteristics of the person herself, one of which is lying.
Lying is a prevalent thing; not infrequently, this is the thing that triggers the breakdown of a relationship. For women and men, both contributed to lying. But you also can’t blame your partner’s actions for lying is wrong. How do you deal with your partner who lies to deter you from doing it? Here’s how to deal with lying women. As a man, you must be wise, and it’s not easy for women to lie to you.
Self-introspection
Your partner lies because there is a reason. Maybe you are too possessive, so it will make your partner not free to do everything. Your partner also has privacy. It would help to introspect yourself first; the lie may appear because of you.
Someone can lie out of fear if they are angry about the truth. You have to introspect yourself first before judging your partner. You must realize that excessive speech is very unhealthy. For that, you also have to think wisely.
Honesty is the best way
Emphasize to your partner that lying is not a good thing. Honesty makes a relationship run smoothly and allows everyone to think maturely. Emphasize to your partner that trust is expensive.
Don’t snap
Women are so sensitive to yelling and anger from a man. Then you have to talk nicely, not by yelling at her. You also have to know the type of your partner. If she is always angry and avoids all evidence, you don’t need to scold her but repay her gently.
Gathering evidence of lies
You have to collect evidence for the lies she did. With the evidence you have provided, she will feel that you are not messing with the relationship you are in. You can do a little teasing by joking so she will feel ashamed for lying.
If you have collected a lot of evidence that makes her not move, you should not immediately scold her or say cynically.
Finish with calm
These are the benefits of facing anger from your partner with calm. If you do it angrily, your decision will make you regret it. Give her space to defend herself and allow her to tell lies.
Don’t put too much pressure
By pressing her for the lies she did, she will try to save herself by lying again. It will make you unable to dismantle your partner’s lies.
To the point
Even if you are calm, you must also be firm. You have to get to the heart of the problem, namely from the lie she did. Asking things that get straight to the point of the problem will make you quickly uncover lies rather than by pressing her.
You need to say that you apologize for lying this time. Even so, you will not give another chance to make mistakes again.